Weddings with Heart & Elope Bend
Mary Ellen Deckelmann, MA
(541) 312-3393

Officiant • Coordinator • Love Coach
Performing Elopements, Contemporary & Sacred Ceremonies in extraordinary Locations & Venues since 1995

Mary Ellen Deckelmann has been an officiant and a Relationship Happiness Success Coach since 1995. She has performed more Weddings than any other officiant in central Oregon. She honors all pathways to love and the diversity of her clients. Mary Ellen is inspiring, creative, and highly professional. She loves creating and designing ceremonies with her clients and getting to know their love story. She is authentic, friendly, and intentional in how she delivers her ceremonies – putting everyone at ease and making her ceremonies highly meaningful and enjoyable for everyone. She offers day-of-coordination and pre/post relationship coaching.

She is so much more than an officiant, minister, and celebrant.

Mary Ellen also offers simple to designer elopements, elopement packages, and intimate ceremonies. These types of ceremonies allow her clients to create something exquisite without the challenges of a big wedding with a high price tag. Having lived in central Oregon for many, many years and being a lover of the outdoors she knows all the “cool” ceremony spots in nature that will take your breath away. She has relationships with the best vendors in central Oregon and will support you creating and coordinating a ceremony that reflects your love within your budget.

Photographer Credit:
Victoria Carlson, Meredith Sands Photography, Byron Roe Photography, Gwen Shoemaker Photography

Mary Ellen,

“We just wanted you to know how much we appreciated your presence at our Wedding.Your energy just shoots out of you in all directions. I swear you could light up a dark room. You have a gift.You were so wonderful in every way. Clay and I feel so fortunate to have had you for our Officiant. You are wise beyond your years and your made every step of the ceremony fun. You are a gifted teacher of life and so upbeat and enthusiastic – your positive outlook and realism toward life is enlightening and contagious. I can not imagine what our wedding would have like if you had a different person officiate our ceremony. You made our Wedding everything we wanted and more.”

Clay and Pamela

Good Morning Mary Ellen,

“I am just reflecting on our wedding yesterday an I am in happy tears about how beautiful it was! I wanted to thank you once again for the time you spent on our ceremony and the interest you showed in our own unique love story!! We will forever look fondly upon the memories and our precise vows. Thank you for organizing all the details and being so flexible and creative. Anyway, again we thank you for making our day so perfect and beautiful!!”

Jennifer and Patrick

Dear Mary Ellen,

“Thank you for our beautiful ceremony into most perfect setting that you helped us find. You made our day magical and memorable. We are so lucky we found you.”

Laurie and John